The ancient Chinese ‘art of placement,’ known as Feng Shui, teaches that if you wish to move to a better place, neighborhood or situation, show respect and give attention to your current residence.  You are demonstrating the care you will provide the new residence you’re seeking. You are also showing respect for the person who will take over your current home. Perhaps this idea will inspire you, should you be feeling overwhelmed by the prospect of a move.

Not every move means you are taking all of your possessions with you.  You might be lucky enough to have a second or weekend house or perhaps one you visit each summer. Nothing is more confusing then wondering where you left a treasured item.

Be sure your second home has towels and linens.  Stock the kitchen with plates, glasses and some basic cooking utensils.  Each weekend or summer when you arrive, you’ll know you can settle right in!  To assist in remembering placement, make use of an Excel spreadsheet and keep a list of special items you have in this home. Next winter you’ll be grateful to discover that you didn’t lose that copy of “Wuthering heights,” you simply left it in the lake house.

In conclusion, moving is always a huge undertaking.  All of the ofromentioned tips cover the obvious elements that come into play: turning off utilities at the current address and finding new providers' Culling through years of collected memorabilia, clothing, pots, pans and photos; Looking at furniture in a new light to see what will work and what won’t.  It’s exhausting, which is why I devoted an entire month to the process.

As with any big undertaking, using a plan allows yourself to stay on schedule and achieve success easily. See this time as a positive transition to the next phase of your life.  Fill the process with joy rather than sorrow and regret.  You know what they say: it isn’t what happens to you in life, it’s how you deal with it.